I used to wonder what my life would have been like if my own father would have been more willing to be a beacon in it. As I have gotten a little older, I realize that I've had just what i needed along the way; a father who abandoned me, another who abused me, one more who didn't really welcome me as part of his family, only as a friend, one who welcomed, supported and loved me and a few others who were willing to give me a little nugget of wisdom and love along the way. Because of those men who extended a hand, gave me a piece of their hearts and even those who hurt me, I am a blessed woman. The combination of love and heartache provided me with a rich group of experiences that have allowed me to love, appreciate and endure trials with my own husband. It's taught me how important Xavier's role is in the scheme of things with our daughters. I am incredibly thankful for all of these things.
So, today, I thank you! Happy Father's Day to all of you ... Good and Bad Daddies. Your role was very important in making me a super strong, compassionate woman.
